Dear Tectonic Tranquility:

The fact that his co-worker/friend is in a 12 year committed relationship, that this project has been his dream project, that it may be done by the end of this week, that you found no evidence of an affair on the computer, all these are encouraging pieces of information.

From your recent share, I have more of a sense of the marriage trouble. He didn’t really want to be a parent and you did- major point of difference. It is my position that both parents need to be willing, very willing to have a child before getting pregnant. Clearly, he was not.

anita