Dear heartbrokengurl:

My advice: attend to that broken heart of yours (I am referring to your user name). This heart is hurting from previous injuries and it gets scared of more pain. Take care of this heart of yours best you can, be kind and gentle to it.

Calm yourself often, talk to yourself as if you were a little girl. Take her hand, attend to her. Ask her: what do you need now? What can I do for you? Let her know she is not alone; that she has someone capable to take care of her (the adult part of you).

anita