Dear Aks:

He has blocked you so that you will suffer and be motivated to talk to your parents. As if you talking to your parents will do any good.

Causing you to suffer so to motivate you to do what he wants you to do is not loving.

In my last post to you I wrote: “I hope that when you do marry, it will be to a good man, one who is honest, kind, loving”- his behavior is not honest, nor kind, nor loving.

It is time for you to be more rational than emotional. Your heart wants him in your life, wants “everything gets sort out”. Respect your heart and at the same time, let your brain take charge.

If he blocked you because he wants the relationship over, that is one thing (and the relationship is then, over). But you suspect he blocked you so to cause you to talk to your parents. This latter motivation and behavior is him being dishonestly manipulative. If you got married with him, there will be other things he will want you to do, and you can expect the same kind of behavior.

anita