Hi Sunseeker1,

I wanted to mention something that I forgot in my previous response to you. You stated that you have worked on yourself, obtained your degree. You just had your Break-up six months ago, and your relationship was for several years. I do not suggest you sit home alone, because you will think about the past, the memories and him. I feel being alone just after a relationship ends only makes us more miserable.

Try to keep busy, even if you don’t feel like it. You can always go back to working on yourself later, although, it sounds like you already have it all together. Go out, even if it’s by yourself, (maybe to a dog park where there are lots of cute men?) (smile)..or try volunteering, book-club, YMCA, anything, but don’t coop yourself up alone with sad thoughts. Keep us posted.