Dear Flossy73:

If I am correct in my understanding that your partner is not currently communicating with ex girlfriends and hasn’t in the longest time, then I don’t see a realistic cause for you to worry, not from what you shared.

The fact, as I understand,  that he did not delete old phone numbers and old emails until recently, does not indicate to me anything more than the unwillingness of many men to throw away anything, really. Lots of men keep old clothes from long ago that they do not intend to wear again, old toys, old momentums, trophies, photos, letter (when such were written, before email), and so on.

anita