Yes, while I do agree that my anxiety can be bothersome to him, his can be for me, too. He has said a lot of hurtful things to me that I can’t ever seem to forget. I understand that it’s hard to be in a relationship and want to spend everyday together, as he does, but I’ve always been both scared and independent. I just don’t know how to forgive and forget. I have only raised my voice in one fight. I do get defensive easily and I’m trying to work on that. It’s just harder for me to adjust to having someone in my life.