Hi Alexa,

I understand your worries. When I left my town I kept looking at street signs and little things like that and romanticising them. According to the internet (lol!) it takes about 2 years to feel comfortable/happy in a new place. I think this transition will be very hard for you because A. It doesn’t sound like you want to do it, even though there are a lot of good things going that way and B. Your cat and all your neighbours and everyone else you know.  I don’t know the relationship with your daughter but I believe family has a special tie in your life that can bring you the most happiness and closeness to others. That’s something you don’t want to miss out on.

I think moving will all and all better your life but you will have to realise that you will be sad, lonely and feel regretful about your decision but just give it time and hopefully being aware of these feelings will help you see them and not give into them as much.

Age is just a number! It may be time for a new adventure!