Dear Zulaika:

You wrote: ” I just wanted to make them happy n proud of me because I knew I don’t want to get married maybe this way at least they will have something else to be proud”- It is natural for a child, and an adult child, to want to make one’s parents proud. But I do hope that soon enough, you will no longer be motivated to make them proud, but instead, that you will be motivated to act in your best interest regardless of your parents’ pride or lack of.

You wrote: “everywhere I turn it’s like full of lies”- stick to the truth. Live your life in accordance with the truth.

Post again, anytime.

anita