Thank you both for your replies!

Jason – I tend to agree that he is not 100% sold, which really bums me out. However, for our first two dates this time around, he did make the plans and do the pursuing. Now I’m just confused because – Whats the point of that?! After he initially ended things, I completely left him alone and assumed that I would never hear from him. But he reached out to me and asked to see me. I guess I just wish he could make up his mind. Ugh.

Anita – He never seemed to do anything like this before. When we initially started dating, he was always responsive and would initiate most of the plans. I don’t see him as very unassertive either. He ended things very clearly, and so I just assumed that he would do the same if he lost interest. I did apologize after one particularly bad night, but that was right before he “broke up” with me. Basically, I said that I was sorry about how I acted (I tried to play it off and blamed it on drinking too much) and he said that he prefers to be around more “laid back” people and that he didn’t think this was going to work. He did add that he liked me a lot and was “really unsure” if he was making the right choice, but he could have just been trying to be nice.

Before we met up again a few weeks ago, I was ready to apologize and explain myself, but we had such a good time that it just didn’t seem like the “right time.” I really can’t explain how out of character I was acting – It was the worst month of my life. I know that I should not have taken it out on him, and I regret it SO much. Should I bring this up if I get another chance, or try to let it go?