Hopefaith what you are doing now, reaching out to this community, is HUGE!!! The fact that you want to make yourself a better person for you is amazing! I say that because a lot of people don’t take the time, for whatever reason, to re-evaluate themselves and explore different areas of their life where they want to be better. Very nice! I know for a fact that there are some unbelievably amazing people here because I communicate with them, via this web site, and I see and even feel the depth of their concern for whatever. You can simply start by asking about any particular issue you are having difficulty with in solving. You can post an opinion you have and ask for feedback. That’s one of my favorites. You can ask the “how do I get over so ‘n’ so” questions. No judgement here, Hopefaith. By the way where do you live? just curious. I actually want to know where everyone on Tiny Buddha lives.