Dear Mina:

My last question for you was: “are you willing invite reality into your thoughts and feelings?

This is the non-reality on your part:

Only yesterday you wrote: ““the worst thing that can happen is I will turn our current relationship into something really bad”

On July 3, you wrote: “Me and my ex are still very much good friends”

You believe that there is a relationship, a friendship going on in the present even though there is no contact and no communication.

Back to the sentence from July 3: “”Me and my ex are still very much good friends. we don’t contact each other but we know that we will always love and support each other.”-

You believe that you know what he knows presently (even though you have no contact with him) and that you can predict the future, not only for you (that you will always love him), but that he will always love and support you.

This is reality:

On that thread, July 3, you wrote: “He decided that it was too much for him”-

He broke up with you. It was his decision, not yours. There is no current relationship going on.

Mina, if you are not sure what reality is, do contact him, do ask, and if he answers you honestly, you will know his state of mind, his feelings, thoughts and intents.

When you feel love for another person but there is no communication, it is just a feeling, not a relationship.

anita