Hi Anita.

I mean for the first year he was affectionate, always showing effort, spending lots of time with me and we had fun. Over the last few months he has spent less time with me, even when we’re walking somewhere he’s either charging ahead or on his phone walking behind me. Hardly texting me anymore. We went out with another couple recently and he just sat on his phone the whole time sorting out his phone bill which was really rude. He’d sit on the other couch away from me when we’d watch a film etc. It really went downhill the night before my birthday when he asked me to meet him for drinks and dinner as he was out with friends during the day but then just never text me back and went out with them all night.

He just stopped interest like he stopped caring about me like he didn’t want to be around me. That’s why I’m finding it hard when he says he tried but I don’t see that he did in the way he was treating me. He says he sees the way he has treated me and that’s why he’s had to do, that I deserve better.