Hey I’ve never wrote in a forum before but I really could do with some advice.

Met a guy two months ago from the off it was amazing. Three weeks ago I didn’t hear from him for a day or so. He then messaged me saying he had a panic as he realised he was falling for me and it scared him. I said I felt the same but we were having an amazing time and that was good right. After that it was wonderful again. Tuesday he asked if I wanted to go away for new year. He already invited me for Christmas with his mum and son. Weds I hear from him as normal, he said he was going for food with his son catch you later darling. I haven’t heard from him since it’s four days and nothing.

I just don’t understand we are both 48 and it hurts that he couldn’t say why ?

i texted and asked if everything is ok but no response. I asked to please just say why because it makes me feel I did something wrong.

Please anyone do you think he ended it because he was afraid of feelings ?

Or have I truly been duped ?

Thank you