Hello Eliana,

Thanks for the blessings!

I just wanted to know if you have been able to make advances towards the betterment of your situation.

Or is it just the day/event in the title of the posts that have changed but the original situation still remains the same?

(Used only for reference)

Alone, in bad health, and depressed on Christmas eve

Sad, rejected and lonely on my birthday

The positive action that I am referring to is not about “Be positive, everything will be ok”. It is very difficult to think positively in difficult times. It is about taking some kind of positive action. Is there any positive action that you have taken between all the time from the end of first post and at the start of the second post? For example, in your very first post it mentions as “I just want to go to hospice”. So is there something that you can act upon it? Can you make a call to them and inquire? Or do you need me to look that up around your area? Or do you just need a push of motivation to get up and doing what is required? Instead of non-action due to ill-health make your health condition itself as a source for that push….for that action. This is just an example. You may be knowing what is the next positive action that you can take.  No amount of any conversations on this site is going to help permanently (although momentarily) without taking the required surrendered action. Moments are passing and days are passing and you do not want to be in the same situation on the next festival or event of the year. I hope you are getting the point. Don’t stay “stuck” in the mud for too long.

Also, did you get a chance to go through the write-up on Acceptance & Surrender. If not I have re-posted it here as No. 1.

Use it to sail through your situation, while taking some kind of surrendered action.

I do remember that you were not able to open at the yoga/pranayama links, but I did not resend them as you mentioned you have back problems.

How about something that the Divine has built in within us? There are points in our body that corresponds to every organ of the body and stimulating those points (by pressing with the finger(s)) will activate those organs. These are Acupressure Points. You simply need to press those points to activate your digestive organs. You may have already heard about it but never got a chance to look into it. Please take a look at No. 3.

The below 3 points are intentionally in sequence so go through them in that sequence.

1)

Acceptance and Surrender (Write-up)
Source: http://www.commonground.ca/OLD/iss//0406155/eckhart_tolle.shtml

2) 

         2.1] How to consciously deal with illness – Eckhart Tolle

(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VG_8cFtg-yg)

         2.2] Eckhart Tolle on Coping with Cancer

(https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMmi92Ge024)

3) 

9 Best Acupressure Points to Treat Digestive Problems:

9 Best Acupressure Points to Treat Digestive Problems

(Please note: in the above link, the images for 2 of the pressure points are missing. I looked up their names by doing an Image search over the web and they are available for you to see the location of the points.)

Warm regards,

~VJ

• This reply was modified 6 years, 11 months ago by VJ.