Hi Ashley,

It sounds like you are in a very difficult position. You should have gotten the promotion, and you are right, “E” should not be working there. She is verbally abusive, passive aggressive and just plain old mean.”a work bully”. I’m also sorry your boss is letting this go and sweeping it under the rug. Sounds like two people need to lose their job. I have had this happen to me numerous times. Harrassment and bullying by co-workers and bosses.

Do you have a personnel department or Human resources department that you can go to for assistance? That is what they do, to help with grievances. You won’t lose your job, and if “E” and your boss are doing this type of thing, I am sure they would want to know about it. Another idea, is there anyway you can apply for a different area (away from her) at your job, it may not be a promotion, but it could be a different department, and who knows, you may get a promotion there.

If you decide to look for a new job, is there any way you can take out a short term loan? Just until you get back on your feet again? Nobody should be miserable and mistreated all day. I do hope things get better. Keep us posted.