Jen,

I don’t believe in fighting to keep a relationship.  I believe in mutual commitment in working together and on ourselves.

He made where he is at clear.  It is up to you on whether or not you are willing to tolerate such a non-relationship on his terms.

I believe you two still can love each other without being boyfriend-girlfriend.

I think most of us get caught up that romantic love is the be all and end all of what love is.

You don’t have that as an option with him.

Mark