Romeo, Good for you for recognizing your relationship pattern in being attracted to women who look for an emotionally supportive partner.  Plus good for you wanting to look into your Family Of Origin (FOO) to ascertain the source of this pattern.

I think you touched on that by knowing that you need to be needed.  Was your mother like that?  Someone who felt that she had to do things that nurture so that she had a role in the family?

Thanks for sharing and I look forward in hearing more about your self exploration.

Mark