Thank you mark and Anita for the insightful advice. I feel that he has a lot to figure out life wise (graduating a masters program, wanting to move, etc) and he isn’t including me unless he sees a future/ is in love. I do think I’m in love with him but it hurts that he doesn’t feel the same, I just think he’s confused or has some commitment issues from his parents divorce but that may just be seeking and wanting him to want me, because who wants rejection