Dear Martin:

I don’t know if her parents know their daughter’s reasons, that it is nothing wrong you did. I am not aware myself of anything wrong that you did, but it makes sense to me that people would say that without knowing, just to make a person feel better. I don’t know if her parents know their daughter very well, if they were close, I don’t know. So no information here about her reasons for ending the relationship with you.

If you asked her parents, after they told you that she changed, if you asked: how did she change? And if they answered, that could have been interesting. Maybe helpful.

anita