Dear niklo:

Good to read from you again. You don’t read to me like a terrible person at all and your thinking reads reasonable to me. If I was in your place, I too will not go back to the man you were with in a limbo-relationship for six years. I think that if he feels hurt by the fact that you are doing the right thing… it is a consequence of his own choice, a choice he practiced persistently for six years, again and again, to not move his relationship forward.

anita