Dear Louise:

I wish you were not house or bed bound, that your life was a better experience for you and I hope it will be in ways that are possible for you.

Not being a mother, not having children, is not necessarily a bad thing. It is a choice that many women make, women who are young and physically able. I made such a choice myself. I figured the world is a painful place and suffering is common. Why bring an innocent life into it.

Reading your other thread, your ex fiancé and ex boyfriend, if any one of them was to become the father of your children, that would be such a bad thing, for those children.

I hope you do make your life better, somehow.

anita