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February 19, 2018 at 3:16 pm
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MarkParticipant
Craig, It sounds like she already decided that you are not “the one” so no matter how hard you try to break your pattern you won’t be able to do so with this woman.
I think your pattern is one of choosing someone who cannot work with you and work on herself. It is before being a relationship rather than having a pattern of once you are in a relationship and therefore trying to make it work.
Don’t you think?
Mark
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