Thanks Anita, but can I clarify, this is nothing to do with anger, I think you’re reading this wrong and trying to put your own spin on things.  Sorry if that sounds harsh.  I’m confused and came on here looking for a solution as to why despite being in a new relationship, why I’m still missing my ex so much.  Yes I’ve had history, hasn’t everyone and a common trait of mine is that I seem to get bored easily in relationships and look where the grass is greener.  That’s something I’d like to change but is not because of anything negative that has happened in my past that I can think of.

Darrel, thanks for your insightful comment but I don’t need any help in that department thank you.