Hi Jim,

All you ever need to come out of your situation (mindset) is Self-Love. First, love and forgiveness for the self and then extending it back to others.

For this I will suggest you the simple and powerful ancient Hawaiian technique of Ho’oponopono which is based on Repentance, Forgiveness, Gratitude and Love.

i] www.upliftconnect.com/hawaiian-practice-of-forgiveness

ii] www.laughteronlineuniversity.com/practice-hooponopono-four-simple-steps

Please go through both the articles entirely. Practice it for at least 21 days (which is the time required to form a new habit) and post back here how you feel about your situation.

Best wishes,
VJ