Dear Yuri:

You can share here anytime and when I am at the computer, daily, I will respond to you every time I see your post.

You wrote: “I always felt like it was my fault that I let his happen to me”- I can relate to such thinking. But before I share more about my thinking, I would like to learn more about your thinking:

why do you think it is that you felt it was your fault, to be mistreated?

And were you mistreated before this ex boyfriend, believing then as well that it was your fault?

anita