Hi JonathanSeagull,

I see nothing wrong with your decision. A lot of people feel the same way you do! I also see nothing wrong with taking two years to figure this out. You say you feel horrible but I hope it’s not because you believe you are hurting the child by leaving. He has a father; I think he’ll be fine. A lot of people aren’t cut out to be a step parent, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

I agree with anita and Inky. It is fair and right for you to make a choice on the matter, and bravo for being so honest with yourself!

B