Hi Athena,

As soon as the children are adults, I would leave. Is it financial? While they are all school aged, make your own money and have your own bank account if you haven’t yet. This will prepare you to walk out the door with confidence when the time comes. Make your life more and more independent from his with each passing year. You can live without sex. And when you do set yourself free, be free! You don’t have to settle for your old childhood friend. Or anyone!

Best,

Inky