I totally get what you mean. I genuinely believe its the way things have just gone in society nowadays. Everyone is so ‘available’ that no one wants to commit / settle. My Nan says the me- why would a guy commit when he gets what he wants without committing?

Its a Cliche but just enjoy your life. Im 30 and single and If I met someone and had kids Id be happy with my life, if I didn’t meet anyone Id still be happy with my life. Its my life and Im going to be happy with it either way, and lets face it, its 80% out of our control. And if you are searching for someone which is totally fine, there’s this little thing that happens in between each goal we have and thats called life 🙂 live it, enjoy it and what will be will be.