Dear Anita

If I remember correctly, during the last weeks before that Saturday my shame was very intense, but no one knew I felt that. Only a few people even knew about the affair, my brother including, but he didn’t know I was feeling sad about it. Otherwise he wouldn’t say something like that, my brother is not an asshole, I have much respect for him. Maybe that’s why it hurt so much to hear that sentence from him. He’s very smart also, everyone knows he’s always right.

The shame was mainly caused by the fact that I’m 22 years old now and no one wants to be in a relationship with me. After the affair ended all my hope was lost, what made me sad.

“I know this feeling. I know shame.”, you wrote. Is there something specific that you experienced, if I may ask? I don’t want to force you to talk about yourself but if you absolutely don’t mind, please do 🙂

Thank you Anita for your time, you make me feel I’m not alone in this 🙂

Greetings

Regi