Dear Anita,

as u asked me ,

If you accommodate his obsession, does it ever get to a place where he says: I trust you now, you can breathe?

so I know he wont be Satisfied and wont ever Trust me.but I don’t understand why cant he Trust me ?.I told him that u don’t trust me but he denies every time and says that its just worrying and he cares for me .I told him that u have  Controlling nature why cant u let me be what I am ..and according to him I do whatever I want he never control or doubt me .

I asked him to call me less so that I can study better and focus on other things .but he denied that he cant do this …he don’t respects my Decisions.nd then I broke up for first time so he was ready to change and  his questions became a bit less,but again almost same .or may be I have no energy anymore to bear his attitude even when he said he is  trying to improve .