Hi Peaches,

Introversion isn’t a phase, it is a personality trait. It is who we are, like if we have dark hair and green eyes. Sure, we can dye our hair blonde and put blue contact lenses on, but we will always have dark hair and green eyes. Meaning, yes, you can absolutely LEARN to be the life of the party, and how to work a room, but deep down, you will always be an introvert.

All that means is we get our energy when we are alone. An extrovert gets his energy from the group. We have anxiety when we are in a group. Others have anxiety when they are alone. I would rather be an introvert. Because spoiler alert: in the end we are really all alone.

Sizing up the crowd is actually a GOOD trait to have. Why apologize for it?

Best,

Inky