Dear Macaron:

Maybe he is “so easy to talk to” because you are safe, safe from a one-on-one relationship with him. There are no follow ups in the future, just the two of you.

Maybe “he makes (you) so happy” because you don’t worry about the day after, what will happen later, if he will reject you or leave you.

You clearly need to love-and-be-loved. It is possible that you are afraid to be in a relationship, so with this man, you kind-of get to love and be loved, but safely, without the worries and uncertainties of a relationship.

What do you think?

anita