I am sorry for such a long post … but things are very rough last couple of days…. i started going to the same gym where my husband goes… i thought spending some time together in a activity will make things better… he doesnt talk to me in the gym at all… he pretends that he dont know me… and to my horror he flirts with other ladies there…. i tried to talk to him about this and he starts shouting…. i dont want to go to that gym anymore but i have paid the big annual amount and i dont have any extra money to go to another gym… so i stopped going to that gym…. this depression medicine is causing me a weight gain and my husband feels i am very ugly person now….