Dear tidalwave:

So the correct sentence is: “I can’t tell a 100 percent what other person thinks and how he feels”-

I can guess what another person thinks, only guess. I can’t read another person’s thoughts, and so I can’t tell 100%, can’t tell 50%, not even 1%. This is why I ask people questions and listen to what they say or write. Otherwise there is no way for me to know.

What do people  feel? A bit more possible to guess correctly because of facial expressions, but not necessarily. People can smile and look happy when they are not. So again, better ask questions, listen to what people say.

I do hope you find a way to no longer focus on this man, to gently let go. First form the intent to let go. Then patiently do just that, at this moment and at that moment.

anita