Dear Amy:

People who treated you badly when you were a child didn’t treat you badly because you deserved mistreatment, or because you didn’t deserve to be happy. They mistreated you because they relieved themselves from their anger (at someone else in their lives) by acting aggressively toward you, hurting you.

You wrote that you believe in karma: what does this belief means to you in context of this cheating?

* Will be away from the computer and back in about sixteen hours. I hope you feel better very soon.

anita