Dear noname:

It is you who did your best with them and for them, not the other way around.

“if they want to be good parents to me to leave me alone in my healing”- excellent. I do  believe you need to be away from them, that is, having no contact whatsoever with them for the purpose of your healing. By stating to them this very thing, you have laid the foundation for what I believe you need to do, and that is no contact for as  long as you need to heal.

I need to get away from the computer for a couple of hours. Feel free to post anytime.

anita