Dear noname:

It doesn’t frustrate me that you are not able or willing to cut contact with your mother. My interest and motivation is your healing, your well being. Clearly, it is not the right thing for you to end contact with her at this point, so it is fine with me that you don’t. If I pressured you to do what is wrong for you to do now, that would be harming you.

In all my communication with you, I am glad to say, I experienced you as honest with me and that is refreshing and wonderful for me, it makes me smile at this very moment. And so, I am motivated to keep communicating with you for as long as you want.

I am certain that you are not “too far gone to heal”. This belief that you are, is limiting, of course. But reality is that you are not too far gone. I  know so because I know my torture, no less than yours, I believe. I thought I was too far gone, but to my surprise, I was not and am not. Definitely a surprise, I didn’t think it was possible for a person, me, that is, to feel  so much pain for so long and yet, see and experience a different way of living.

Post anytime, today, anytime.

anita