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Dear Anita
I asked her to open that door, to let him in, so that he would go to bed and sleep, she provoked him and started arguments. I wrote more but deleted it, doesn’t matter now.
I don’t understand why would I lie about the gym, when this detail doesn’t even add or change anything. We met at 2:30 pm and he said we will go to the gym because he wants to take his things that he left and ask about something so I went with him. And then we went to the coffee shop. I know I sometimes wrote ‘a drink’ instead of ‘a coffee’, it’s because of translation, in my language a drink = something to drink, which is any drink, for example coffee, juice etc. I didn’t mean drink= alcoholic drink. I went home after 4 pm so I said it was an hour, but we were at this gym earlier together. I understand why it mattered to you, and why you noticed it, I just meant we met for a short time. I didn’t lie. I’m sorry you thought I lied.
My father left me some money, years ago I wanted to buy a place, we even looked at some in the internet, but my mother wanted to renovate her boyfriend’s home. She persuaded me we will all love together and she took some of those money. A couple of weeks ago after talking with you on this forum I talked to her about buying my place and I said I want him to give me back those money, but she started yelling and crying etc. After couple of days she said he will sell something and give some money but now it turns out he won’t. She said she can help me to pay for a place instead but it’s not enough for a place in the city so I found this one in the town 40km from here, it’s a small town.
I don’t want anyone to think a conversation with me is a waste of time, it’s how I understand it now, so I am sorry. I didn’t lie, and I don’t understand why it is happening and why you have this impression. I don’t have any possibility to prove I tell the truth. I am thankful for your time and effort, even for details you were reading over and over again, I really appreciate everything you told me here. It’s more than I would dare to ask.