Dear Nichole:

Assuming your sister in law’s child is not attached to you (you moved not long ago from Florida, back to Chicago, from your previous thread, so I figure the child is not attached to you)- can you quit the Godmother job? I don’t know much about it, but if it is possible to quit, maybe you should.

It is very important that you void people who act rudely toward you. It doesn’t matter that sometimes she is polite, she should never be rude to you. It triggers you, then you get angry and explode at her, not a good dynamic. Better avoid her company altogether, which brings me back to the idea of quitting your godmother job or role?

anita