anita, we had a long, long conversation last evening where I expressed everything that was on my mind.  Everything he’d done, and my feelings about this new girl (she’s a little psycho – already talking about marriage, and possibly eloping since her mother might not be OK with this union. It’s been 10 days, you crazy girl).  What non-sense is this?

He said “not wanting to let me go as a friend”.  I have to admit I thought this was nice at first.  After a good night sleep, however, I see it as him wanting me around so I can witness this evolving relationship, and keep hearing about how much chemistry they have.  I’m not going to let that happen.

I’ve also had a long conversation with my best friend about it this morning (he was away on vacation this whole week with no cell coverage – which was torture for me!! but he had fun 🙂 ).  He’s a very rational, observant person, who always seems to be able to put things in perspective (almost as you do, anita).  We both agree this never-ending cycle of hurting me and coming back to apologies is toxic.

I have decided to cut contact with him outside of work.  This is going to be a little difficult as we both play in a team league together and have a friends wedding to attend next month (wedding he’s already planning on bringing new girl too. So that should be fun).

I took the day off today (this has been emotionally taxing on me and need a rest day) and plan on going to the beach.  I’m hoping to get somewhat rejuvenated by this.

Thank you for following up!!