Dear Risha:

I don’t think it was a mistake that you met him that last time, asking him to change his mind and marry you. If you didn’t, you might have regretted not having done so. Meeting him that one time didn’t harm you because it wasn’t what caused him to proceed with his plan to marry this other woman. It made no difference in what was to happen next. But at least you know that you asked. You received his No and were shocked by it. Soon enough, that shock will stop shocking you as reality sinks in.

I understand that you are 39 and age is something to consider as we plan our future in regard to career and relationships. But I assure you, it is not too late for you to find love, the love all of us humans need.

anita