John,

I must confess I’ve only read a few of the posts in this thread….but a really good saying came to mind that was told to me.

Let me preface it with saying that I also have been “hooked” on someone.  I’ve struggled alot.

“Don’t look back, you aren’t going that way”.   The past and reminiscing has such a powerful spell and draw to us…. because the lighting is fuzzy and everything seems more perfect than it was.

The present is exactly that…..a gift.  I am trying to stay in the present (the “gift”) and not look back.

🙂  Loleta