I want to do that, but she has said she doesn’t want to see or talk to me at all right now. Which also hurts because this wasn’t a messy breakup, or one that gave her reason to hate me. She refuses to talk to me. She hasn’t really even talked about our breakup with her friends. When her best friend tries to get her to talk about it she can say what she felt I did wrong, but when her friend asks her “how do you think you contributed?” She will literally change the topic or say she doesn’t want to talk about it anymore, I feel as if my hands are completely tied.