Hi Anita. Yes, his preference for flirting with other women over advancing a genuine, real life relationship with me makes me feel incredibly lousy about myself and question why am I not enough for him?

I am very sensitive on the topic as I had an ex that would not commit to me. He had roving eyes, and I suspected may have cheated on me. My father is also emotionally abusive and has been all my life. This guy who has retreated from me knows all this, and still manages to hurt me and abuse the trust I placed in him.

I got myself tangled up in another toxic connection again, and it makes me feel weak and sad to think I would fall for such a self-centred man. 🙁