Hi Antia, Thank you for your kind words and suggestions.

I wished so much he’d just be a Dad. My parents don’t even see that I’m depressed. I thought going to a gastroenterologist and having an endoscopy would get them to see, but they’re clearly not getting it and i guess that’s the way it its.

I’m hoping to move to NJ, but I had to decline the new job and stuck for the month of December because of being short staffed. I should have been more proactive and looking sooner in September or October where I would have more leniency, but I wasn’t. I’m hoping the position remains open once January hits so  I can fully relocate. Once this happens, I am paying off my car in full to my parents and cutting financial ties.