Dear IpkR09:

You wrote a few days ago: “I have always been afraid to show people my weak side”-

I want to invite you, here, to show your weak side. So that you can be strong enough to let go of people who want  you weak. It  seems to  me that  your sister is not interested in your best  interest, but in keeping you weak, chasing her  for acceptance, apologizing for… no wrongdoing on your part.

Her motivation is to feel better at your expense. What happens as a result  of any sacrifice you make for her,  of all your efforts  to please her, is that she  at best will feel better  temporarily, but not long term, and you will be hurting yourself long term.

anita