Dear Eli:

I know the  feelings,  Eli, you are not alone  in this. What  happens next,  most  of the  time, is  the person gets scared and goes back to the relationship, even begging the  person  to take them back. It’s the  fear and the pain. If that happens, you  can still  write  to me, I will  not think badly  of you.

I do  hope though that you will somehow have the courage  and the strength at this time to do what is right for you. The choices that  are  right for you are always those that  give you dignity.

anita