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Hi Anita

Nope, different one! The friendship was around 8 years, met at uni. We always said we were more like family and did literally everything together. However she stopped talking to me all of a sudden in June, confusing as we had just met two weeks prior and everything was fine. I assumed it was because of me constantly talking about my friend that I know over email (we met through her so mutual friends. So i messaged her and apologized; a few times I emailed her because I was feeling low and I guess I thought she might have calmed down. Recently I found out through our mutual friend that she thought I had been talking about her to two other girls we knew- on any other day she would have asked me out right and believed me but because I had annoyed her she obviously felt hurt by the rumors ( i was probably the closest person to her ) so she blocked me last june. My mutual friend told me to contact her boyfriend, which I did- just asked him to tell her I had sent her an email explaining everything. Luckily, he didn’t reply which is a good sign as he didn’t block me? Not sure what to do next…messaged him over christmas as thats when I found out

Sounds like a teenage drama sequel lol but it’s been really bugging me and good friends are hard to come by, so I don’t really want to give that up