Dear KC:

In your original post you wrote: “Till now I’m still holding on desperately because I knew it will be so hard or even impossible to find someone like him”-

but what you had all along was not him, but him and his father and his mother, three people in one. He is not a man who loves you, he is a man who loves you and will not marry you because you are of a different race and obeys his parents.

And so, understanding better who he is, I think it will be possible and not too difficult to find a better choice 0f a man, a man who will love you, who will not break up with you because you are of a different race and who will not obey his parents.

anita