Nairobi,

Thanks so much for the advice. I feel dull and unhappy. The crying has stopped for the most part, but I miss him as much as the day after we broke up so I’m hoping that eventually moves too. I’m glad to hear that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Michelle,

I take anti-inflammatories – which I hate taking because they disagree with my tummy, but it usually settles again in a week or two, so fingers crossed! I will get around to that list, because I’m actually intrigued if I could even come up with future wants!

Kkasxo,

Welcome back, so glad to hear from you, as my mind gets worried easily and sometimes I’d think the worst for no reason! Absolutely no need to share anything right now, as long as you’re keeping yourself together and functioning, that’s all you can do. If you’re in the worst of the worst places, maybe a prescription of a medication for a short term might help you see a chink of light in that tunnel. You see me here and I’m on it but it doesn’t dull or hide what I’m feeling, as you can gather from my posts, so don’t worry about that side of it. It’s up to you, but I know I could not get myself out of the worst of times at the time without some help and I’m aiming to be off it again by summer and my therapist feels that totally achievable, so maybe an option?

Let us know if there is anything we can to help you, you deserve a good life.